How to Attract Women

March 19th, 2012 Bryan

Learning How to Attract Women, is it really possible?

Yes, and it’s time to learn how to attract women now. You may have heard me blab about “Attraction” before. I talk about this all the time because most men just don’t understand attraction. This word has a very different meaning for women than it does for men. Because of this, virtually all guys , literally don’t know how to attract women. How to Attract WomenI’m bringing this up because a while ago, I started to notice women saying this word a lot. They would say something along the lines of , “I just wasn’t attracted to him.” What does this mean? Think about this for a moment, men don’t really speak like this. We would probably say something like, “She’s so hot.” I doubt you’ll hear some dude (straight dude) say, “I just, didn’t find myself attract to her.” I challenge you to ask a few ladies, “What does attraction mean?” Then ask a few men the same thing and notice the difference. Are you picking up what I’m putting down? If you want to “attract women” then you need to know how attraction works, for women it’s different.

Forget about what you THINK you know.

I consider myself a reasonably well-informed and smart dude. I find it fairly ironic how long it took me to figure out how attraction works, I mean it took YEARS to figure out how to attract women!

 

Let me give you a some examples.

I used to THINK that I should to be very nice to women, have lots of money, and wear really nice expensive clothes. Makes sense right? Seems like a woman would like a really nice guy with money and a fine wardrobe right? Well, I was a very nice guy. I did whatever women wanted, if she was having a bad day, I was there to accommodate her‚. I accepted her bitchy and annoying behavior. I put up with a lot of bullshit and it always got me the same result. NOTHING. I spent money on them. NOTHING. I was nice to them. ZIP. I did what they wanted. You guessed it…nothing. I kept doing what seemed like women wanted but they never liked me that way. Being that they weren’t sexually attracted to me. The thought of a woman being sexually attracted to me didn’t even seem like a real possibility. I felt that no matter what, there was zip I could do to learn how to attract women.

Again, what I THOUGHT I knew was incorrect.

Here’s another big one, I THOUGHT women were attracted to men the same way I was attracted to women. As you know, guys are attracted to women mostly based on physical qualities. If she’s smokin hot, you get an instant woody and want in on the action. I figured I didn’t have good looks so something must be wrong with me. Over and over again, I was just being nice as a way to make up for the reality that I wasn’t an exact replica of Calvin Klein model. I thought the only way you could know how to attract women is if you were born really handsome or were really rich. Made sense at the time. I had nearly given up but I had began to study human psychology, sexuality, and the differences between men and women. I began applying this to my dating life and studying friends I had that seemed to have it figured out.

I had the “ah ha” moment.

You see, science has proven the fact that women are more emotional creatures then men. If you don’t believe me, go read, “The Female Brain” by Louann Brizendine. If that isn’t enough, just ask a few people if women are more emotional than guys. We already know this. Most men get turned off by this or weirded out. I personally think it’s amazing and dove right in. It had been standing right in front of me my whole life. I couldn’t believe it. How could I ever have thought that attraction was the same for women as it was for men? They don’t.

This was the first step for learning how to attract women.

Here’s the bottom line. Men are attracted to how she looks, women are attracted by how he makes her feel. For guys, it’s largely physically based and for women it’s EMOTIONALLY based. Remember what we just realized? Women are more emotional than men. The next common mistake is that men think that making her feel good involves being extra nice, doing what she wants, and putting up with her bitchy or manipulative behavior. That is NOT how to attract women, as you may frustratingly know already. While this might make her feel comfortable and good, it doesn’t make her feel sexual attraction.It makes her feel like she has a good friend or a brother. After studying social psychology and female sexuality for a number of years, the other important thing to realize is this. Sexual attraction happens fast, just like all other emotions. It’s not logically decided. It would be ridiculous to say that good looks, money and nice clothes don’t help because they do. They simply aren’t the most main factors in attracting women, they’re icing on the cake. The real difference between men who are excellent with women and guys who aren’t, is that men who attract women know how to make a woman feel this powerful emotion on a sexual level. Men who are good with women trigger emotionally based primal sexual attraction within. This is also the reason why any man can can LEARN and improve his sexual attraction capabilities. Any guy can learn how to attract women on an emotional level and sky rocket his success. It took me years to figure this out but if the old me could see me now he wouldn’t believe it. I want to teach you more specific and exact methods for emotionally attracting women on a sexual level so that she can’t control it.

How to Attract Women

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Raise Your Social Standing

March 18th, 2012 Bryan

Raise Your Social Standing

Yeah sure, money can help you increase your social status and attraction level with the opposite sex. The keyword here is “help”… if you’re anything like the way I used to be it was easy to make that an excuse for your lack of success in your dating life. I am going to teach you proven tricks to attract women like a RICH, POWERFUL man.

How to Attract Women with Social Status

What is it about rich and powerful men that makes them attractive to women?

Money is the easy answer but what if you don’t have buckets of money in your life?

The answer is status.

Simply put, women are attracted to guys who have high status. A lot of people will automatically assume that this means you must be loaded or famous to have high status.

I think anyone can agree that being rich or famous is one way to help gain high status, it is not the only way to accomplish this effect. So if you and I are not wealthy or famous, what can we do?

High status means more than just your bank account. There are many different levels of status. For example, here is a few different types of status that ANYONE can attain.

***High Social Status

***Status within specific SITUATIONS

What does this mean? Sure, having a private island or multiple movies roles will help you have high social status or higher status within a specific situation, what can you do if you don’t have a zillion dollars or your own TV show?

Think about it for a moment…

What can somebody like you do to get higher status?

There are Loads of stuff you can do. Number one is LEADING the situation.

I can’t emphasis this enough, don’t ever be the guy who falls into the situation of, “What do you want to do tonight?”

“I dunno, what do you wanna do?”

High status means taking charge. High status men are not scared to make a decision and lead the pack. It doesn’t mean being a jerk, this means moving things along. If somebody thinks of a cool idea, rally everyone behind it. Be the leader, don’t be the follower.

Make sure you switch venues and move around to different spots within a venue. If I’m hanging out with a woman at a venue, often times I’ll simply move to the other side of the room.

“Let’s check out what’s going on over here!” It’s as easy as that.

What else can you do?

Know what’s going on. Make sure you know about the secrets in your neighborhood. Are there cool ghost stories? What’s the best new ice cream store? Why is the best? Every night of the week, what’s the best bar or club? Don’t forget to make sure you know why. What is a fun story about a time you hung out there? Local gossip or scandals?

What am I getting at?

You don’t need to be rich, incredibly good looking, or famous to know what’s going on in your town.

Think about this, what’s more attractive?

The man who has no idea what to do, what he’s done, or what’s happening?

Or the guy who has several ideas of awesome things to do on any day or night of the week? He also has a story to share about the last time he did it and/or is happy to share his excitement about the next time he’s going.

On any given day or night of the week I like to know what’s going on. Where I’m from on the second Tuesday of every month there is and event called The Artwalk. It cost NOTHING, and it’s tons of fun. There’s a whole bunch of cool art galleries, free wine, and all kinds of killer food vendors.

If I’m talking with a woman and she’s been there before, we can share the excitement and stories we have about it. If she hasn’t, I can hype up how fun it is and demand she checks it out with me.

On Saturdays there is a cool farmers market I like to go to in my neighborhood and they serve the best coffee I’ve ever had.

On Sundays, there’s a club I like that serves free vodka drinks from 9-10:30.

On Mondays, there’s a place I like that has an unbelievable happy hour special of drinks for $3 and tacos for $1. It’s a nice place with a busy and fun environment.

There is a local mansion that has been turned into a city park that not many people know about. Basically the man that was responsible for bringing electricity to my city donated his estate to the city and turned it into a really cool park up in the hills. It’s a great place with with great views, great history and it cost NOTHING.

Barely anyone knows about it, even if they do, they don’t know the entire story behind it. There was major scandal/murder that happened in the 20′s at this park, point being, it’s always a cool story to share.

These are just a few ,of many, things that happen/are happening in my town and there’s stories attached to every night of the week at every place that I can share anytime.

Things like this are happening no matter where you live. Find out what’s going on, what’s happened, and talk about your experiences there.

A high status man is GIVING VALUE rather than taking value. This doesn’t mean he’s handing out $100 dollar bills to everyone he sees. I mean he gives a fun, engaging, and rich experience with women when he hangs out with them. Women are able to let go and have fun in the moment, no pressure, no labels, no expectations. Just a solid, good time.

Now let’s discuss the next rule.

Always hype of everything.

Everything you do is amazing, everywhere is the coolest place. Status is like exactly laughter and the flu, it’s contagious.

If you start cracking up, most of the time, other people will start laughing too. If you are super excited and having fun because of whatever is happening, it will almost always rub off on her too.

It’s an amazing time because you are a HIGH STATUS MAN that is having fun.

Think about this. Within any situation you find yourself in, ask yourself, “Who has the most status here and why?”

A great simple formula is this. Women are attracted to men who have MORE status then they have.

If she’s the one who’s leading the situation, making all the plans, and everyone is hanging on her every word… . what do you think that means?

It means you are the one TAKING value and not giving value. It means she’s the one WORKING in order to entertain you. That sucks. It means she is NOT going to be attracted to you.

Be the man and take charge of the situation.

Women love nothing more than getting caught up “in the moment” with a guy. Things “just happen” you’ll often hear as a woman tells a story.

To make things happen, have her get lost in the moment of a high status man… . YOU.

Think about your status and what I’ve talked about today. Ask yourself, “What can I do RIGHT NOW to raise my status?”

Best of luck out there!

Bryan Baldwin